Category Archives: Lifestyle

Black Women, STOP Wasting Your Time and Energy

I think the single biggest mistake that psychologically healthy, well-meaning Black women make is attempting to “cure” ignorant, damaged Black folks of their disorders. It’s a waste of time, it’s a waste of energy, and it rarely (if ever) works. … Continue reading

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Don’t Fall For the Casual Sex Okey Doke

While I still have no doubt in my mind that the media is guilty of championing the sexual promiscuity and irresponsibility that is wreaking havoc on our society at large, and the Black community specifically, there are many individuals pushing … Continue reading

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Stop Exposing Yourself to Anti-BW Propaganda!

For the last few months I have noticed a rise in propaganda designed to convince BW of their undesirability. This propaganda comes in many forms: social “science” surveys/ studies are the most popular, followed by articles on why you should … Continue reading

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Marriage Ruins Relationships!… The Marriage Myth Exposed

The idea that marriage can ruin a relationship that was once loving and respectful is probably one of the most popular Hollywood created and promoted myths around. And despite the fact that it is completely untrue, it just won’t die. … Continue reading

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