Tag Archives: Black people

How to Handle and Respond to IRR Harassers

If you are in an IRR (inter-“racial” relationship) you probably know that the majority of people you encounter do not care about your relationship. They have their own lives and problems, and you are not even a blip on their screen. In … Continue reading

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Black Women, STOP Wasting Your Time and Energy

I think the single biggest mistake that psychologically healthy, well-meaning Black women make is attempting to “cure” ignorant, damaged Black folks of their disorders. It’s a waste of time, it’s a waste of energy, and it rarely (if ever) works. … Continue reading

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To All the Black Women Who Say, “I don’t need a man!”

To all the heterosexual Black women who love to shout to the whole world that they don’t need a man: Please, stop lying! Seriously, if you are a heterosexual woman who wants to have a romantic relationship with another Human … Continue reading

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Don’t Fall For the Casual Sex Okey Doke

While I still have no doubt in my mind that the media is guilty of championing the sexual promiscuity and irresponsibility that is wreaking havoc on our society at large, and the Black community specifically, there are many individuals pushing … Continue reading

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